Yeh, you’re going to come up against this a lot.
I was asked to design a canteen area - and I followed the brief and submitted 5 on point mockups (because I knew how it was going to go with this person before I even started).
Then all came back with negative feedback, not what they wanted, not what the brief was (even though it was).
So, 3 of us set about to create the designs, 1 did a on-brief as before, another did a variation of a theme they kinda liked, and I did a completely out there, off brief, not what they asked for.
And finally they came back and said YES to mine - a jungle theme, with animals, grass, trees, and animals that don’t belong together - but it was EXACTLY what they were looking for…
Here’s some tips:
Clarify what they want. Repeat back what they’ve said in your own words, prompt them to refine their request. For example, “When you say ‘an overall description,’ are you looking for a high-level summary, or something that highlights specific milestones or impacts?”
Provide 2–3 quick mockups or sample (found on internet - this company does this do you like this?) approaches to help narrow down their preference. People often don’t know what they want until they see what they don’t want.
Guide them with questions. Like others suggested, asking direct, open-ended questions can be helpful. One of my favourites is: “What’s the primary takeaway or message you want readers to have after reading this?” This shifts the focus to outcomes, which can clarify their expectations.
Developing a lightweight briefing document or checklist can save time - not for them to fill out - ask the questions, jot down the answers - they don’t have to be in order, but just in conversation.
Who is the audience for this?
What’s the primary goal of the document?
Are there specific elements or sections you’d like included?
Request conversations if email exchanges aren’t working, suggest a quick 15-minute call or meeting. Verbal cues and live clarification can often make the process smoother. After the meeting fire off an email outlining everything you discussed.
I’ve been in a similar position where vague feedback felt like a brick wall, and what ultimately helped was showing I wanted to collaborate to reach a clearer understanding. It’s also a great way to build rapport and mutual respect with the client.
Sometimes you need to nudge stakeholders to provide clarity - because they aren’t clear themselves on what they want.